A Candid Look at Both Sides of the Question
If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “Maybe I should move to a senior living community… but maybe not yet,” you’re not alone. It’s a big decision—and an emotional one. There’s excitement and hesitation, curiosity and concern. Whether you’re 70 or 90, independent and active or starting to think about your future needs, it’s natural to wonder: Is now the right time?
Let’s talk about both sides of the question—the “Why I Should” and the “Why I Shouldn’t”—to help you navigate what’s right for you.
- Why I Shouldn’t Move—Yet
You’ve built a life you love. Why change it now? - “It’s too much work.”
Packing, organizing, downsizing—it all feels overwhelming, especially when you’ve lived in the same place for years. - “I’m not like ‘those old people.’”
Spoiler alert: neither are they. But we get it. You still feel vibrant and youthful, and you want to live around people who do too. - “I’ll miss my independence.”
Especially the things you love—Osher Lifelong Learning programs, your favorite coffee shop, volunteering, the Milwaukee Symphony. These are a big part of who you are. - “It’s change. And I’m not ready.”
That’s fair. Change can be hard, even when it’s positive.
Why I Should Move—Maybe Sooner Than I Thought
Now for the other side—because while the reasons to stay are real, so are the reasons to go.
- New friendships come easily.
At Saint John’s, residents meet new friends over dinner, during book clubs, at art shows, concerts, and wellness classes. Connection happens naturally here. - Life is full, not limited.
Our calendar is packed with lectures, concerts, cards and games, fitness classes, wine tastings, and more. You’ll never be bored (unless you want to be). - You don’t have to give up your old life to start a new one.
Osher classes? Still on the table. Downtown culture? Minutes away. Senior living doesn’t replace your life—it enhances it. - Less housework, more free time.
Say goodbye to shoveling snow, fixing leaky faucets, or stressing over grocery shopping. Everything is taken care of, giving you more time to enjoy things you like to do. - Peace of mind with Life Care.
With a plan in place for your future health care needs, you’ll worry less—and so will your family. - You’re not getting younger—and prices probably aren’t getting lower.
There’s something to be said for making the move before you need to. You’ll enjoy the lifestyle longer and secure your future while it’s yours to choose.
What’s the Bottom Line?
This isn’t about giving something up. It’s about gaining peace of mind, new possibilities, and a life with fewer “have to’s” and more “want to do’s.”
You don’t have to figure it all out today. Just start by visiting a community, asking questions, and imagining the lifestyle. Because the right time to move isn’t a date on a calendar—it’s a moment of realization that your best days are still ahead, just waiting to be lived.
Curious about life at Saint John’s On The Lake?
Let’s have a conversation. We’d love to show you around, introduce you to a few residents, and help you explore what’s possible.
Saint John’s On The Lake has over 155 years of innovation in serving older adults. Known for its luxury living, Saint John’s offers residents the opportunity to enjoy active, fulfilling lives enriched with a variety of amenities, services, and vibrant community activities. Our commitment to excellence ensures that each resident experiences an amazing lifestyle, making Saint John’s a premier choice for senior living. Contact us to schedule a personal tour.